During the hustle and bustle of the holidays, it can be difficult to prioritize ourselves. We want to share a few ways you can build resiliency in yourself to have a healthy and satisfying end of this year as you start the next.
Noticing your anxiety, rather than ignoring it will help you feel more connected and prevent burn out. As you prepare for busy days, try to create moments of slowness to connect with your body. Pay attention to physical signs of anxiety, and help yourself soften as you breathe. This reset can help you re-enter a party, work, or travel from a more intentional headspace.
Stop to ask yourself, “What do I really want for myself this holiday season?”
With so many external demands during the holidays, stopping to think about how you want to spend your time can give you more control to create the experiences you want. Once you have a picture of your wishes, what are actions you can take between now and then to help them come to life?
Spend some time in a group. Connecting with others can be healing for our nervous system. Some ways to connect socially could be: getting a group of friends together, attending an exercise or yoga class, learning a new skill, volunteering, joining a faith-based group, or finding a public event near you. If social groups tend to increase your anxiety, try joining one that doesn’t require as much verbal interaction.
Consider what rituals and traditions you want to keep, change, or create new for yourself this year. What would make the holiday season meaningful for you? What food, activities, clothes, decorations, music, or conversations are important to include this year? Share your ideas with your loved ones and invite them to participate with you.
Keeping to healthy rhythms and routines is stress-reducing. It is normal for our schedules to shift to accommodate new plans and time off, but ensuring that some parts of your typical schedule are prioritized will help you to feel your best, like ensuring you get enough sleep, planning time for exercise, and eating nourishing meals.
If you find self-care during the holidays to be difficult, you don’t have to wait for help. Contact our office to get connected with a therapist who can help. You can reach us at 517-481-2133.